Hey there! How are you? I’ll wait for your answer………
I don’t know about you, but that “how are you?” is such a LOADED question! Whenever someone ask me that question, I base my answer on my relationship with the one who’s posing the question. Because some people really don’t want to know how I’m doing, they just want to ask something of me but they ask this as a “prep” question. 🙂
Okay, so if I ask you that question, I really do want to know. If I don’t care, I won’t ask. Simple as that. That sounds so cold, but it shows how genuine I am. I hope you can see that. 🙂 – the smiley face softens it, right?
So I will ask you again… how are you?
Here are some possible answers:
You can say, “I’m OK” but really not.
You can say, “I’m fine” but really have a lot on your mind just not in the mood to share at this particular time.
You can say, “The world is falling apart around me and I feel like I’m sinking!” — we’re getting warmer and closer to that heart.
You can say, “I’ve been better” which is another way of saying the statement above.
You can say, “I want to scream! I’m so frustrated. Nothing ever goes right. Something bad always happen to the good. I’m just over it! I opened my phone and just started reading Facebook statuses to take my mind off of this debauchery of a life!” Wow, touchdown.
Or you can simply say, “Life is great!” Good for you.
Matters of My Heart has been working tirelessly on building a support system for our community of victims of abuse! Victims are those who are emotionally drained from life or from the pain of their past. They are unhappy but don’t know how to come out of that dark cloud OR they don’t see any hope of ever coming out of that dark hole. They are physically drained from everyday happenings of life. They go to bed every night hoping and praying that they die in their sleep and never wake up the next morning. And when their eyes open the next morning, the depressive cycle starts all over again. They feel like they are cursed or that their whole life is meant to be tragedy after tragedy. They feel it will never get any better.
I’ve been there. Not too long ago … I’ve been right there! And when I had a solid support system rally around me to show me that there is life after death (my horrible past), I decided to do something about it. So Matters of My Heart was birthed out of my pain.
Matters of My Heart houses an emotional support program called “Bridging the Gap: Hurting to Healing™”. It is a journey. It is a process. It will take a lot of work. It will take commitment. But you will not have to journey alone EVER AGAIN!!!
The emotional support program was designed by the hurt (Jai) for the hurt (you). It contains a four tier process that first begins with a phone call. You will have a 30 minute consultation with me, the Founder of Matters of My Heart! During that call, we will develop an individualized emotional fitness plan. You will get private access to the Members ONLY website where we will continue to interact together (in a safe and secure environment) and with other Members of the Bridging the Gap community. There are loads of resources categorized by geographical area, a Q&A section, and other valuable ingredients to produce an emotionally-fit and healthier YOU.
But that’s not all. My favorite part of the emotional support program is the EmoFit™ mobile app! That’s right! The app was personally created, designed and maintained by yours truly! In the app we identify the areas of unhealthy coping mechanisms we tend to do to cover the pain, and we develop practical ways of combating it. We talk about anxiety, depression, alcoholism, cutting, suicidal thoughts. We talk about self-care, self-improvement, self-development. We tackle issues dealing with the mind, body and soul. AND, get this, the app comes with a self-study guide!!!! Didn’t I tell you that you are not alone, right? (If you keep reading, I have a special surprise at the bottom of this post!)
The final tier to the emotional support program is scheduled touch points with yours truly. We meet face-to-face during the program to assess where you are mentally, physically, spiritually, psychologically in your journey. We assess if the program is working in your favor and if there needs to be any adjustments. We dive deep into the matters of your heart. And I simply love on you until you are well enough to love on yourself.
You see, there is so much to this emotional support program that I am so excited about sharing with you! Every component was carefully thought through and improvements are constantly being made to increase its effectiveness!!! It works!!! How do I know? Check out my story here. I’m not telling you what I heard, I’m telling you what I KNOW to be true!
Are you ready to let go of that pain? Are you ready to live in your new normal? Are you ready to live a life of purpose and destiny? Are you ready to start your journey of healing? Are you ready to say “yes” to the possibility of living PAIN FREE???? Are you ready to say “yes” to joining a community like you, for you? Are you ready to take my hand?
You’ve tried everything on your own and it didn’t work. You’ve tried going to church but no one in there was able to understand you. They failed to meet you where you were. They failed to give you the individual attention and care you needed and longed for. You’ve tried going to a degreed psychiatrist but they didn’t seem to “get” you. They talked over your head. They just didn’t know what to say. They talked like a robot. You’ve bought every self-help book out there but still found yourself lost in all of the words. None of it made sense. None of it resonated. Until now… somehow you came across this blog and you’re clinging on to every word!!!
Then all you have to do is say, YES!!!!! A resounding YES!!! And take my hand.
So let’s get down to it. The Bridging the Gap: Hurting to Healing™ emotional support program is available in two distinct packages: the 6-week program OR the 90-day program!
Why so long? Because research shows that it takes a minimum of 90 days before a “thing” becomes a lifestyle! And we are on a journey to tear down myths and old habits that keep us stuck in our past! We are on a journey to identify those triggers that causes us to regurgitate that painful experience and soak in it. So changing our old habits will take time, will take a process that has results, will take a commitment and support team willing to go all the way! It’s a lifestyle we are changing! It’s a process and journey that will be life changing for the rest of your life! Don’t you think it’s worth every minute and effort to smile again?
So sign up today! Start your journey by saying “yes” to the 30-minute FREE consultation. Or if you just know this program is for you or someone you know (yes, you can sponsor someone in the program), then go the extra mile and sign up today for either the 6-week or 90-day program!
The 6-week program costs $698 and
The 90-day program costs $998
Now don’t say you can’t afford the program! Don’t talk yourself OUT of living free from pain before you even accept the possibility that it is possible! Payment plans are available!!! Take full advantage of what is an opportunity of a lifetime! A moment and a chance to smile again. To wake up with intent. To wake up with mission. To wake up with peace and joy. It is possible with the Bridging the Gap: Hurting to Healing™ emotional support program!
But that’s not all! Those four tiers that I talked about earlier… you can also sign up for them separately! If you want the EmoFit™ mobile app (for both Android and iPhones) with it’s self-study guide, you can choose that option! Click here to see all of the options available TO you FOR you because OF you!
I can’t wait to wrap my arms around you and journey with you on our journey towards emotional healing! It is within reach. Will you take it? Will you take my hand? Will you let me help you? Start now. Start here.
Founder, Matters of My Heart
Matters of My Heart EmoFit™ Mobile App!!! (You get a sneak peek! This app is private, password-protected and only accessible to Members of the Bridging the Gap community!)